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I sense a break up right around the corner ...

It amazes me sometimes to hear how quickly *some* men move on and before you know it,they've got another woman in their lives.
(Not that that was the case with me and my ex).
Savona,hope you dont mind me asking you in the Forums here,but whats going on with you & D,now?
How are "things"?

Roxy127 wrote:It amazes me sometimes to hear how quickly *some* men move on and before you know it,they've got another woman in their lives.
(Not that that was the case with me and my ex).
Savona,hope you dont mind me asking you in the Forums here,but whats going on with you & D,now?
How are "things"?

Ya only men do that...

I know some women that just dread being alone, they bounce from relationship to relationship, making the same bad choices. Just because they don't want to be alone.

Both sexes can do it. Not argument there.

Both sexes can do it. Not argument there.

That's true,Swan.......why i made a point of saying *some* men.
We cant generalize now,can we?

I think a break up is different for me. I stay friends with roughly half the guys I date.
(several have made great FWB after the fact...)
Some I dump, some dump me. Its more of a this isnt working kind of thing.
All too often guys want much more than I can give them.
Im too care free for them and they want someone more traditional.
It starts out on the same page and ends up in another book.
I think ultimately we are all looking for that spark that can ignite an ever lasting fire.
I think thats just human nature.

Maybe one day I'll find him again.
I still have hope. Till then heres to dating, and often!

poem from the pick a line thread, first line courtesy of Willow:

perhaps the charade was over and done
house of cards laying flat on the floor
a hut of sticks that could not stand up
when the wolf howled his wind at the door
perhaps there was a leak in the pool
all our energies seeping away
the roof out of whack as foundations caved
we fell asleep and just called it a day

Choosejoy wrote:poem from the pick a line thread, first line courtesy of Willow:

perhaps the charade was over and done
house of cards laying flat on the floor
a hut of sticks that could not stand up
when the wolf howled his wind at the door

It's done ...

Beware if you think change has happened
When a person is bitter inside
No amount of laughter or fun
Can cover the rage deep inside

When a person allows their mind to whirl
For 20 years non stop
The hate they felt then will emerge
When a trigger bullet is shot

Some can remember the good times
While some only remember the bad
Some people get on with their lives
Other build bitter walls though the nights

Some people can live in the now
And have dreams that are yet to come
Some live in the past
And their daily sorrow is for what was

hugs, savona

I think it's when I said Thanks for everything I think I'm going to go on home now. Goodnight.