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Re: Screening a date ...

Postby dorothyparker » 09 Aug 2010, 22:57

This thread is absolutely hilarious. I need a booking too for my exorcist!!!
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Re: Screening a date ...

Postby Stress Free » 09 Aug 2010, 22:59

savona wrote:"

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Is that Lily in 20 years time?
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Re: Screening a date ...

Postby UCbro902 » 11 Aug 2010, 11:55

Fishy Seeks Master Baiter wrote:I

7) Do you like Oprah?

# if you notice the woman has hyper animated, vibrant type moods with lots of humor, then also spacey moods as well, run the other direction, this woman has borderline and will destroy you.


These two are major red flags...LOL. Any member of the cult of Oprah is someone to avoid...LOL.
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Re: Screening a date ...

Postby FunkyMonkee » 04 Sep 2010, 20:16



Some people use this.
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Re: Screening a date ...

Postby FunkyMonkee » 04 Sep 2010, 20:50

Ask her what color panties she's wearing.

If she hangs up, consider her to be humor impaired and move on.
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Re: Screening a date ...

Postby SorJuana » 07 Sep 2010, 10:31

Fishy Seeks Master Baiter wrote:10) do you have a lot of male friends ... ? (this question indicates a certain kind of personality in a girl ... an apathic reptilian like personality)


Yay! I finally found a sig. v v v I don't know what it means, but it has a certain je ne sais quoi about it.
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Re: Screening a date ...

Postby Choosejoy » 07 Sep 2010, 10:54

SorJuana wrote:
Fishy Seeks Master Baiter wrote:10) do you have a lot of male friends ... ? (this question indicates a certain kind of personality in a girl ... an apathic reptilian like personality)


Yay! I finally found a sig. v v v I don't know what it means, but it has a certain je ne sais quoi about it.


Congrats, SorJuana, it's lovely. :D
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Re: Screening a date ...

Postby UCbro902 » 11 Sep 2010, 13:15

Fishy Seeks Master Baiter wrote:I know that when I was meeting folks from PoF, I really ended up with a very small ratio of face to face meetings versus initial emails, due to weeding out during phone convos, etc.
What question do you rely on to see if there is any promise?

To get the juices flowing, here is a list of questions (I have left the typos in) from a religiously-oriented web site that seems guaranteed to weed out evil women:

ask a woman or man these questions before dating them. If they say yes to these questions, run the other direction, dont date.

1) Do you like horror movies, or movies with lots of blood?

2) Do you have rapid mood swings, or rapid shifts in behavior? have you ever heard of borderline disorder and have the symptoms of it?

3) have you ever purposely cut yourself more than once? are you a cutter? (self mutilation)

4) have you told a man "I Love You" and has that relationship ended in a way he did not cheat a bunch of times, abuse you, did severe wrong, or die? (if answer yes, run, its a clone/souless being)

5) Do you like violent video games?

6) Do you sware a lot?

7) Do you like Oprah?

8) Do you read self-help books? have you ever blamed someone for them having depression as being their own fault

9) Are you brutal? does the word Brutal apply to you in anyway instead of the word Gentle?

10) do you have a lot of male friends and call yourself a person who gets along better with males as friends? (this question indicates a certain kind of personality in a girl that is almost always a back stabber and a non-committer, an apathic reptilian like personality)

11) Do you like snakes? Do you like reptiles?

12) Do you like skulls? do you have shoes or clothes or items or computer images with skulls on them and similar images?

13) Do you like or have tattoos of dragons, reptiles, pentagrams, skulls?



you get the point, learn how to form a long list of questions

this way you can filter out sociopaths or are possed or evil. if you deal with women (or men) who answer yes to these kinds questions , you are dealing with a person who is going to hurt and backstab you, whos not going to have empathy, etc.

Learn how to decern and see red flags in behavior and such

if you notice the woman has hyper animated, vibrant type moods with lots of humor, then also spacey moods as well, run the other direction, this woman has borderline and will destroy you.



Isn't this a mass email that went around about weeding out Satanist or something? I don't think it's original.
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Re: Screening a date ...

Postby Choosejoy » 11 Sep 2010, 14:56

from the above post you quoted:

To get the juices flowing, here is a list of questions (I have left the typos in) from a religiously-oriented web site that seems guaranteed to weed out evil women:
"Ring the bells that still can ring, forget your perfect offering, there is a crack, a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in." Leonard Cohen
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Re: Screening a date ...

Postby forums1 » 23 Sep 2010, 05:03

I prefer this thing call "conversation" to running an interview. Far easier to learn what someone is like by having a comfortable conversation that just goes in whatever direction it goes in, you can learn a lot that way.
Besides, the major red flags usually pop up either way pretty quick... its the little things that annoy you that you don't find out until you really start to get to know someone.
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