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Yeah, yeah, yeah whatever Teen You're just razing us out of frustration because you know we are the type of women you will never have. In fact IRL I doubt if I'd even talk with you.

dotcom wrote:Yeah, yeah, yeah whatever Teen You're just razing us out of frustration because you know we are the type of women you will never have. In fact IRL I doubt if I'd even talk with you.

Touche' ( don't know how to do the french keyboard conversion ; P)

HannaSolo wrote:
I bet Teen Wolf is confusing the two posters.

I think Teen knows EXACTLY who he's referring to.

I'm not so sure. Until I came on this site and discovered the "chat" function, where you get to know people a bit more through real-time conversation, I had a tendancy to confuse people who had similar names (or names with phonentic triggers) and also sort of looked alike. It happened there, and also here early on, when reading posts from a few members. I got them mixed up. It might even be a form of "visual" dislexia, for all I know.

But i never read Savona talking about alimony...

Neither did I, but that other woman did. Quite stridently, if I recall. Which makes the "he knows EXACTLY who he's referring to" concept illogical. If he never read it, he wouldn't be going on about it. He THINKS he read it. I think it was someone else.

You're just razing us out of frustration because you know we are the type of women you will never have. In fact IRL I doubt if I'd even talk with you.

I don't understand this comment at all. What type of woman are you talking about? All the women posting, even those who are angry at Teen Wolf, aren't the same "type" of woman. They all seem quite different to me.

Hanna,i still stand by my opinion that Teen knows exactly who he's talking about,tho' not WHAT he's talking about.

They all seem quite different to me.

With respect,Hanna,i think it is *you* who is quite different

at dot's comment

Roxy127 wrote:Hanna,i still stand by my opinion that Teen knows exactly who he's talking about,tho' not WHAT he's talking about.

They all seem quite different to me.

With respect,Hanna,i think it is *you* who is quite different

at dot's comment

I'm with Hanna, I think we have quite the collection of different "types", if anyone's interested in typing people.

What we do have in common is enough sense of self to stand up and speak, sometimes posturing, sometimes exposing, sometimes amusing others or just ourselves.

I like the differences, it's a rare opportunity.

NIce to meet you all.

We are, at least the majority, the type of women that are not going to sit back & let a man say what ever he chooses or make unfounded accusations. We seem to be the type that have an opinion & not afraid to share it. We seem to have common sense. We seem to be intelligent, strong willed women. We seem to be the type that can carry on a discussion intelligently adding humor instead of spewing venom. We are quite capable of holding our own & defending ourselves when necessary. It appears we will not take verbal abuse from anyone. If you don't fit in this category, I'm sorry I did not mean to offend you.

As for the IRL comment, if someone started accusing me of being dishonest I would walk away & not bother to even talk with them. Life is too short to put up with brutally honest sarcastic people that think they have the right to verbalize everything that goes through their mind.

I wish I had the time to really address my comments, but I need to get ready for work. Good morning everyone, it's going to be a great day.

Cheers to all the recent posts ... and thank you for all those who supported me.


Opening post ...

I'm not looking for a new father figure my daughter has the love from me that she need's now where is the love for myself.

And here is the fine line when dating with younger children. It is pretty difficult to bring a SO into your life and not allow them to be a "parent" figure and expect things to happen all around them without them getting involved.

I don't think anyone could be with a child that they could grow to love and not be a parent figure in some sense. It is however difficult to know where the boundary lines are. When two adults are at odds as to children's behaviour it would be easy to say stay out of it they aren't your kids, or I don't want to get involved they aren't my kids.

During happy times it is easy to stand there with a grin at home n school visit the teacher day ... yea isn't the child doing so wonderful and want to take a piece of the credit as the step parent, but if the child is not doing well it would be easy to step back and say ... well they aren't mine so don't look at me.

Blending families as millions are now discovering, is one of the most difficult things to do. There is no wonder that so many people don't want to get involved until their kids are older, of that empty nester people are fearful or unwilling to date people with younger (especially) or teen children.

Me, I did try the blended family thing ... and man although it was difficult, there was so much love and fun in our house I would never have given up those years. My family were the younger ones though ... and my x his kids were the older ones. But breaking up was still hard on everyone. I would never do that again, nor will I date anyone who has younger kids ... That is only my opinion because I have my freedom now and am not willing under any circumstances willing to give it up.

dotcom wrote:Yeah, yeah, yeah whatever Teen. You're just razing us out of frustration because you know we are the type of women you will never have. In fact IRL I doubt if I'd even talk with you.

dotcom wrote:We are, at least the majority, the type of women that are not going to sit back & let a man say what ever he chooses or make unfounded accusations. We seem to be the type that have an opinion & not afraid to share it. We seem to have common sense. We seem to be intelligent, strong willed women. We seem to be the type that can carry on a discussion intelligently adding humor instead of spewing venom. We are quite capable of holding our own & defending ourselves when necessary. It appears we will not take verbal abuse from anyone. If you don't fit in this category, I'm sorry I did not mean to offend you.

As for the IRL comment, if someone started accusing me of being dishonest I would walk away & not bother to even talk with them. Life is too short to put up with brutally honest sarcastic people that think they have the right to verbalize everything that goes through their mind.

I wish I had the time to really address my comments, but I need to get ready for work. Good morning everyone, it's going to be a great day.

I read your first comment earlier today, but couldn't respond due to being in the fetal position clinically depressed.

Do you have a silver spoon in your mouth? This may come as a surprise to you, but not all men are eager to talk to you.

I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire. How's that for brutally honest? Or would you prefer that I lie for "good discussion"?

Once again, rather than address the comments I made, you choose to talk sh*t and insult. You talk about me being a child. I suggest that you take a hard look in the mirror.

You claim to be the type of woman that won't "sit back". What have you accomplished here except trying to put yourself on a soapbox and insult me? Like you claim, I have an opinion and care to share, but unlike you, I actually address the issue and articulate my POV. You haven't defended yourself; you have retorted with insults and nothing more.

I'm frustrated and razing? If you look at my last post, I don't see any frustration; I see addressing statements made, unlike what you do.

Page Turner wrote:Touche' ( don't know how to do the french keyboard conversion ; P)

Haven't I made it abundently clear in another thread that I have zero interest in a woman with TMJ?

So "touche" all you want. I have no desire to talk to you. Isn't honesty a b*tch?

HannaSolo wrote:I don't understand this comment at all. What type of woman are you talking about? All the women posting, even those who are angry at Teen Wolf, aren't the same "type" of woman. They all seem quite different to me.

Agreed. I'll give you a little hint. She has no retort, so she's lowering herself to insults, in an attempt to make herself look good.

Roxy127 wrote::lol: at dot's comment

Read comments above.

Savona wrote:During happy times it is easy to stand there with a grin at home n school visit the teacher day ... yea isn't the child doing so wonderful and want to take a piece of the credit as the step parent, but if the child is not doing well it would be easy to step back and say ... well they aren't mine so don't look at me.

True, but I've also known step parents to be "pushed back" when trying to discipline.

On another note, you sent me an email and I didn't know the intent. I ask you to clarify, but you haven't. Feel free to respond anytime.

Teenwolf wrote:

Savona wrote:During happy times it is easy to stand there with a grin at home n school visit the teacher day ... yea isn't the child doing so wonderful and want to take a piece of the credit as the step parent, but if the child is not doing well it would be easy to step back and say ... well they aren't mine so don't look at me.

True, but I've also known step parents to be "pushed back" when trying to discipline.

And so here we agree.

On another note, you sent me an email and I didn't know the intent. I ask you to clarify, but you haven't. Feel free to respond anytime.

Teenwolf wrote: I just tried finding it on POF. It doesn't help when the post in question was made sometime in the Fall of 2009.

POF's search is very bad.
Member's post history only goes back so far and not far enough in this case.

It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack.

I was wondering if you were still looking Honestly I don't think I have ever gone back and searched a poster on here, their posts on POF. I thought it was funny you doing that.

Wow! I hope ya'll have had better experiences than me!dating sites suck,
bars are out of the question if your a single parent and i could go on and on. Love and relationships are free will and
I wish you all the best, its never easy for single parents but I can tell you that men accept others children a whole lot easier and better than women do. My experience has been that the woman is into me but not my kids. well we are a package deal
thats just my experience not my opinion