eyeofthecamera wrote:
Personally I think some of the negative cliche behavior on internet forums is more or less an extension of the same media mentality that reality shows and TV in general seem to foster.
I agree with you as I find you never negative, always so positive.
The ones who treat debate like a competition are not really contributing much to a discussion. They are just there to pick a fight. The highly judgmental sorts contribute little more then examples of the same kind of pisspoor thinking that exists in the real world on some subjects. Often times they provide proof of the exact hypocritical thinking that often spawns that debate in the first place.
Yep I agree with you here too but I do wonder how you can be the judge of who is contributing? Perhaps those who don't agree with your point of view makes you feel that they are non contributors, as I have often been considered.
Most people these days are too afraid to have an opinion, so they do not attempt to engage is discussions.
I actually think people are MORE opinionated than they have ever been, and far less afraid to voice it.
On POF I would estimate less then 30% of the posters there had any interest in intelligent debate or the forums at all. Once they took the "last five posts" things out of profiles then I bet the forum traffic there dropped even more. These days from what I hear it is only a trickle of posters, mostly old guard and diehard trolls.
The forums are very slow there, but incase you haven't noticed they are getting pretty slow here too. Wonder why.
Everyday common people are afraid of debate, because they see how lives can be ruined by the mob bully behavior of tv show environments. People are becoming defensive and afraid of each other, because conformism is pushing intelligent people out of the mainstream. Now within ten seconds most people stick day to day individuals into a "us or them" category. That kind of social standard makes a lot of folks wary of polite discussion anymore.
POLITE discussion ... hummm
Anywhoo I have pulled back from debate forums on certain sites because I KNOW if my opinion is different than others that there are those who think I have low intelligence. So I have just not really bothered much anymore. Some nasty commentators have followed me from not only one thread to another, but from one site to another. All because my OPINION differs.
No point in a debate if everyone agrees. Right?





